How to Write a Hate Letter?
Tips for Writing Hate Letters, Hate Mail and Breakup Letters
You know how they say at times that some things are not rocket science in life, just like that writing a hate letter is no rocket science at all. All it takes is a pissed off person with a hefty load of anger & frustration that just cannot wait to be vented out “sugar coated” with a lot of mean things to say to someone. Hate mail & hate poems not only allow a person to let lose all the fury accumulated inside of you against someone but also lets you place the blame for any particular act or words on the other person.
Likewise, and also on a very frequent note, we get to hear the ‘B’ word from guys many a times when we hear them complaining about their women. It would not come as a surprise if you hear a guy quoting something that sounds like,
“Life is a bitch, and then you marry another one”.
Clearly these are the sentiments of a very, very enraged and resentful guy. This is when you would feel very compelled to tell yourself, “I want to send hate mail to a bitchy friend!”
Giving a Dose of Your Own Meanness
Of course it does not take a genius to figure out that hate letters to mean people are (in all likeliness) well deserved for something that person either did or say in either public or in the privacy of your seclusion with one another.
But, taking a look at the flip side of the coin, think of it this way; a person inking hate love letters not only shows that he or she is incapable of confronting a situation in person but is also emotionally so immature that he or she would rather resort to filling page after page with spiteful words, and waste their precious time & energy towards something more constructive, productive & positive rather than try to ease the tension that prevails in the relationship at that particular interval in time.
However, for those of my beloved readers who at times find it a challenge on how to write a hate letter, here a few tips on writing hate letters you might find useful in those moments of infuriated loneliness.
How to Write a Hate Letter to Your Ex
Do Not Procrastinate, Just Do It!
Don’t think about it! The whole point of you being in that messy situation is that you just don’t care about anyone or anything right then. All you know is that you have been wronged; your rights as an individual have been violated and someone ought to be held responsible for it. So, keeping it real & simple, just start writing; don’t care about the spellings, don’t care what the writing looks like, don’t care about nothing; just let the emotions flow like an ice cube on a pool of spilt vodka.
Give the Nastiness Inside You Some Words
Honestly, you want to be alone & just by yourself when inking this genius piece of scripture filled with the most brilliant & intelligent blend of vulgarity, hate & resentment
Begin on a Paper
Don’t make no excuses for delays; just because your sis is using the laptop, don’t wait around for it to become available once again. Instead, grab a pen & paper and smear that clean white sheet with your load-full of animosity & abhorrent emotions.
But you know what, as human beings, it is very natural for us to feel upset over & be judgmental about something when it has happened just recently. However, even by looking at our own daily lives, we usually do get over things & incidents. Not to mention that we ourselves end up on the side that is at fault.
So, while it is your right to vent out that anger, you really do not want your special other to go through it at a later point in time. So go ahead and do write something, but it would be highly advisable to either (preferably) burn it after reading it a few times once you’ve written it or tuck it away in such a secretive place that even you yourself will forget it after a little while.
And if you are desperately bent upon sharing this uproar of emotions with the other person; firstly, think about it with a cool mind (possibly after taking a few sips of booze on the rocks), be empathetic & put yourself in the other person’s shoes, and maybe instead of sending the original inscription to your beloved, just ask him or her for some time when you guys can be alone and talk things over.
Communicate Your Distress, Anger and Resent
This actually opens up the possibility of drafting out funny hate letters; something through which you can communicate your distress but also bring a smile to your beloved’s face by making references to special moments you have shared in the past during course of your relationship.
So while I have shared these thoughts of mine for people who want to know how to write a hate letter, these same principles can be picked up by those who seek to learn how to write a breakup letter, how to write a complaint letter and also for those who want to learn how to write an angry letter. And if all of this is not enough, trust me, there are many, many examples of angry letters out there just waiting to be viewed, read through and learnt from.